Definition of Domestic Abuse

Domestic abuse has been broadly defined as a pattern of abusive behaviors by one or both partners in an intimate relationship. These partners may be married, dating, family members, friends, or roommates. Depending upon the nature of the relationship of the people involved, domestic abuse can also be referred to as spousal abuse, intimate partner violence, domestic violence, dating violence, or family violence.

Domestic abuse has many forms including physical aggression or threats thereof, verbal abuse, sexual abuse, emotional abuse, controlling or domineering behavior, intimidation, stalking, digital abuse, and economic deprivation. The principal aim of abusive behavior is to gain and maintain power and control over another individual.

Characteristics of Domestic Abuse

Domestic abuse…
• is a series of patterned behaviors
• aims to gain or maintain power and control
• involves harmful and coercive behaviors
• is a choice
• is learned
• is not about anger management
• is never the victim’s fault
• is not caused by intoxication
• is usually progressive